BL : Deciding Dates..

You know, it takes a lot of courage to ask " The Question " and I'm not only talking about popping the question for the ( hopefully ) final plunge. In short, asking someone to be your significant other, takes lots of guts, you know? So, lets just say you've gotten over that stage and you're convinced you really want to do this. Okay, fair enough.

Now, the thing is, when do you do it? How do you pick a day out of the entire 365 days we have in a year? Which date would be worth to signify the start of the " our " day?

Well, for some they like to do it on special holidays or worst yet, on birthdays and such. Which is okay, I think? But here's my take on it.

NEVER. EVER. Do it on your birthday, Christmas, new year or whatever else special date there is out there. Why? It's simple! Think about your future. For instance, if this.. relationship doesn't work out and you guys happened to get together on your birthday, imagine what you would be remembering every year from then on? You'll be thinking/missing the other person on that day each other. You can hardly ever enjoy the event fully that way!

I don't know what brought this thought on.

Maybe because it's my birthday. Who knows.

Anyways, my advice is.. there are so many other days out there. Just pick one that doesn't happen to be your birthday, christmas or whatever, kay?

Besides, you'll get two presents that way!

Instead of that El Cheapo combining two gifts into one. lol..