aloha people. sorry for the lack in posts. we've been busy :)

recently, over the past months, i was well, involved in a love triangle. yes. how scandalous. hehe:p and its really really screwed up and really complicated. but thats not the point. the point of today's post is when the boy, let call him... A told me that his girlfriend, B was trying to control him. trying to tell him how to be around his friends and all. and the thing that struck me the most is when he pointed out that i never used to do that to him.

boys. listen up.

just because your girlfriend doesnt say anything about you being close to another girl,
doesnt mean she is okay with it.

and even though she says she's okay with it,
she really isnt.

seriously.
because there will always be a sense of insecurity no matter what.

and that also applies to married people also. hahaha:p

blessed christmas ya'll!

a little thought here.

currently, in college, there is this friend of mine who is totally liking one of my gal friends. hehe:p so when we, namely the rest of the gang, found out that he liked her, started to tease him and stuff and asked him to admit to her. did he admit to her? yes he did. but but he started to act weird around her.

he had this constant worry about saying something wrong to her, or making a bad impression and he keeps on feeling as if he screwed things up.

how bad is it? bad. i hear about it everyday.

he even asked her whether she was jealous that me and him hang out together a lot. which was totally fine with her.

armed with that constant worry about making a bad impression or screwing up, he doesnt seem to be able to talk to her normally, like the way he talks to me and to the other guys. he always worries about EVERY SINGLE WORD that comes out of his mouth, which gets annoying cuz he keeps asking me whether he said something wrong when he TOTALLY didnt say anything wrong.

i feel like hitting on the head until he starts talking to her like a normal friend instead of being nervous and all cuz it makes it awkward for her.

sigh. are all guys this nervous when talking to girls they like?