a little thought here.
currently, in college, there is this friend of mine who is totally liking one of my gal friends. hehe:p so when we, namely the rest of the gang, found out that he liked her, started to tease him and stuff and asked him to admit to her. did he admit to her? yes he did. but but he started to act weird around her.
he had this constant worry about saying something wrong to her, or making a bad impression and he keeps on feeling as if he screwed things up.
how bad is it? bad. i hear about it everyday.
he even asked her whether she was jealous that me and him hang out together a lot. which was totally fine with her.
armed with that constant worry about making a bad impression or screwing up, he doesnt seem to be able to talk to her normally, like the way he talks to me and to the other guys. he always worries about EVERY SINGLE WORD that comes out of his mouth, which gets annoying cuz he keeps asking me whether he said something wrong when he TOTALLY didnt say anything wrong.
i feel like hitting on the head until he starts talking to her like a normal friend instead of being nervous and all cuz it makes it awkward for her.
sigh. are all guys this nervous when talking to girls they like?