Friday, November 28, 2008

BL : Hugs

Being touched is a good thing. Affection is a good thing. I like affection but I don't get enough of it.

I'm determined to have more than 3 post before the month is over. You hear me you other two lousy people who just don't update when I'm the one with finals tomorrow! Oh gosh! My finals are tomorrow. Hahahaa. I'm a goner for sure.

When you hug someone, make sure you give them a proper hug okay. Don't give them skinny hugs! I hate them the most. Must as well don't touch me, right?!

I'm actually a very hug-able person, but because all of you aren't, I don't hug you. I love hugs! I need hugs. Quite frequently.

It's really simple to give someone a hug. Main purpose of a hug is to feel warmth, comfort, and a pleaseing presence of another body against your own.

People feel good. People are warm. People smell nice. People are more real when you're touching them.

There are 2 types of hugs.

The Type A hug.
A type A hug is hugging bodies apart, shoulders touching, arms wrapped around each other. It's shaped just like the letter A, therefore the " A Type Hug".
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That above is suppose to be you, OKAY!

Type 1 Hug.
A type 1 hug is hugging with bodies together, touching, wrapped up against each other. It's shaped like the number 1.

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It's much better to give type 1 hugs because they involve more body contact and therefore, you're not giving off some unwanted message of, " I don't really like you but I'm just trying to be polite." which happens to be Type A hugs. I hate Type A hugs.
To hug someone, just think about comforting the person, feeling good and just stop being embarrassed about it because, there isn't anything to be embarrassed about!
I don't know why people are afraid to touch one another today.
I don't see hugs in the movies anymore. Not proper ones - bear hugs, lovers hugs, comforting hugs. It's sad.