Thursday, September 11, 2008

A boy and a Girl

I haven't been able to update much because of some family stuff thats been keeping insanely busy that I've barely had time to even update my own blog.So this is my 2nd post!

Lately this issue has been lingering in my mind.It's been rather conteversial and some plainly believe its impossible.But personally after much debate with myself and going through much experience; I've decided that this is possible

The Issue:

Is a guy and girl able to remain best friends and ONLY friends?

Ok so I know many of you are disagreeing me right now.Friends I have spoken to mostly have said its not possible and feelings are sure to get in the way. But after reading articles and much from personal experience, I think that if both sides work on it,it can work.

I'm not saying tha feelings won't develop.For one side,feelings will definately bloom or maybe it wont.This really depends on the two people and their chemistry and such.Sometimes one prefers to keep the feelings to themselves but then there are those that are willing to take the risk.

These situations may led to two outcomes:
1. A happy/good relationship

2. A bad relationship and a broken friendship

But the con here is that once you cross that line,there is really no going back.Seriously.Unless you are absolutely sure that the other party share the same feelings then take the chance and go for it but if you're in the middle and in the middle of the fence,it's best you give it time and see how it goes.

If you are in the following situation, analyze your situation and go with your heart.But also beware of the consequences..they are quite severe.

xoxo