Monday, March 16, 2009

Redundant Love

You know I was out with these two people for a couple of days and I couldn't help but notice so many things. I don't know why. Normally these observations are somewhat like a footnote only, but these particular observations were like the entire document in word art.

It just wouldn't stop plaging my mind.
It wouldn't shut up.
it wouldn't leave me alone!

Okay, a tinche of drama there, but that's me.

So, these two have been having some relationship issues and stuff for the past few weeks. Going through rough patches and such. Well, the boyfriend was obviously trying to win her back again since they broke, but I guess since they were sort of " on a date " that she was giving him that opportunity to " prove himself " and what other nonsense. * sigh * FINE. it's not nonsense but it sure feels that way.

Moving on, as we all know, the economy hasn't been very good. With that said, he's merely a student and as for work, it's only part time. But yet, he still pays for everything and I mean everything. Walk into a shop, he buys this for her. Go out for dinner, he pays and whatever else she wants. Aiyoh, I don't know. I mean, if he was filthy rich and all that then that's a different matter. And the worst part is that he's been borrowing money from other people which makes it.. I don't know. It's just really bad.

It's hard, you know, to sit by the side lines as a friend who cares and watch the girl twirl the guy around her little pinky. Worst-er still, is that she knows she's got him wrapped around her little pinky. And she toes with his heart strings and then leaves him cold. it's almost torture. I don't know what to make of it.

Not only that, she uses him and oh, she USES him. Pick me up here, drop me off there. Take me here, take me there. Isn't it nice having your own personal chauffeur? What more, this driver would give her world just to see you smile. He watches out for her feelings all the time. he gets stressed out because he's afraid she might not be happy. If anything goes wrong, he blames himself.

I guess it's driving me insane. I can't bare it no longer. Had to get it out. But after reading this, and I'm not just making it sound worst, I'll telling it as it is, doesn't your heart just go out to the guy? Don't you just want to tell him to ditch the girl and be YOUR BOYFRIEND? He'd be better off without her.

But you can't. Because she has his heart. And he's 100% devoted to her. It breaks my heart. It's almost like umrequited love. She's got full authority to trample all over his heart, then nurse it back together just so she can trample all over it again and again. Sadist.